Submitted by Kara Kimos on the 2024 Spring semester program in Aix-en-Provence, France…
Bonjour from France! My name is Kara, and I’m a junior at UD studying Human Resources with a minor in French. This is my first week in Aix-en-Provence, a town in southern France that’s close to Marseille and the Mediterranean Sea. In choosing this study abroad program, I was looking forward to the ability to immerse myself in French culture, so I wanted to describe some of the differences I’ve been noticing!
I speak a decent amount of French, but this week, I have been working through being nervous to speak French to store/restaurant employees. It’s clear to them that I am not French, but I have had positive experiences so far when speaking, even though I am definitely making mistakes. Noticing my accent or apprehension, I’ve been asked a few times in French: “Do you speak French?”, to which I reply in French, “Yes, I’d like to try if you’re okay with that.” Even as my new friends and I continue to go to more and more restaurants, I’ve felt myself slowly getting more comfortable over the past few days!
One major difference my peers and I have noticed is that we are constantly being stared at. One of my classmates pointed out that a woman was staring at her, and rather than breaking eye contact and looking away like Americans often do, the woman just continued staring. Aix is somewhat of a tourist town (much less so than say, Paris), but I see how it would still be of interest to them to see what international students are up to! Think people watching but a little more intense.
Another cultural adjustment I’ve noticed is that you have to say “Bonjour!” (or Bonsoir! after 5pm) every time you address someone, walk in the door of a store, or board the bus, otherwise you’re considered very rude. In the US, I’ve noticed that in some stores, you don’t greet an employee until you’re making your purchase.
All in all, I am loving life in Aix, and I can’t wait to get more and more comfortable with speaking French in my daily life! (Submitted January 21, 2024)