I have never felt so many emotions as I felt this week. My mind has been racing. I’ve been thinking a lot about everything from humanity to culture to family more than a busy student ought to. There has been something more anxious about the mix of classes, work, projects, and life in general lately. When I get overwhelmed I usually get homesick. Not because I physically miss home, but more because I miss the familiarity and comfort I find when going home during breaks, the freedom I get from this hectic life I have made for myself in the northeast.
At the reservoir this week, I let my thoughts run free, giving them the time to go in any direction they desired. But when I let release them, they cease, and I think nothing for a while. I just take in my surroundings – looking, hearing, feeling, but not thinking for once.
The grass on the hill has been cut recently leaving the clippings spread in concentric rings up the hill. Two paths straight up the middle of the hill become apparent. They are worn from bikers and joggers making a quick yet trying journey to the top. There is a sign by the path that says, “Please Use Alternate Path to Avoid Continuous Damage.” I am reminded of Wedell Berry’s essay about the importance and significance of a path like this to connect us with nature. He describes a path as a habit that comes from familiarity, from contact with the land. A path he says must flow with the surrounding and not be seen as out of place, but rather as a character of that place (Berry 12). This path, much like many others, shows the impact of man on a place. Although one of the more positive markings we have put on land, there were still efforts forcing us to conform and use the path to the top instead.
At the top, the water flows smoothly over the gray rocks and silky grass on the outer body of water. Dried shrubs of what may have been Miscanthus droop over the metal pipe as if they fainted from the heat and left their ends to flow gently in the water. The rocks on the edge have moss growing on them as they begin the small slope up to the asphalt path. The slope is an amalgamation of different rocks, some big some small and of every color from deep black to grays to reddish brown. Weeds spot the slope, trying to make their way through the rocks and moist, gravely soil. I notice the pipe is not smooth. Rather dents and specks cover its entire length. There are places where the water spews from it as if like miniature water fountains. I find a line of four or five holes which sounds like a water fountain and elicits from me the feel of tranquility.
I decide to close my now tired eyes from the numerous details around me. I let myself hear what’s happening. The crickets again, but this time I recognize the chirps of another insect. Four chirps are its rhythm with the occasional pause and a set of three. Another, I hear, is farther away but gives a loud shriek-like chirp, almost like it’s shouting at the crickets. I hear a police car in the distance, so faint that to hear it, you’d have to be listening for it. As I just listen, I realize the peace from the quietness I feel around me.
Then, the abrupt sound of the lawn mower startles me. I am suddenly reminded of my home in Arkansas where our flat five-acre lot is boxed in by pine trees. I am reminded of my days back in high school when, after a long tiring week at school, our gardener would mow our lawn at 6am on Saturday mornings. The deep silence would be interrupted by the loud moan of the mower as it would pass our windows and wake us each time. I have gone through many spouts of homesickness at college, some when I have missed physical things like my bed and living room, others when all I wish is to do the after dinner chores with my family, and even others when I want to escape from the college that it is so different that what I had imagined. When I think about home today, I can relate to Wendell Berry and his courageous move back to his home in Kentucky. He tells us about is home, how he can remember it so vividly from the position of rocks on the ground, the nature that he was immersed in, and how it had a sort of calling to him when he was away (Berry 5). I do not feel “Arkansas” is calling to me just as I am sure Berry did not feel “Kentucky” calling to him. Rather, I believe we both felt the pull of home on our hearts.
Wendell Berry didn’t just move back to Kentucky because of the land. There was his family, his house, his memories – his home (Berry 5). This feeling of safety, relaxation, and familiarity was happiness; it was peace. I feel the same about Arkansas. I miss the simple and quiet feel of life there. The vibrating sound of a cow’s moo in the deep peacefulness of the countryside. The closeness of family of how we would squeeze five of us on a king size bed to watch the evening news and weather, our shoulders touching and our bodies as one entity. This is what I miss the most now, when I am on the east coast, my brother on the west coast, and my parents and younger brother smack in the middle of nowhere. We (my older brother and I) are working to make better lives for ourselves. Like Berry, we both moved away to surround ourselves with better opportunities, job offers, colleges, and educated people. But what I have found is we cannot shift from our minds the feeling of family and home from our lives before. Going home during breaks is extra special. It’s beyond the food, the late night movies, and family dinners. It almost feels like we are going back in time to a simple life where we had none of the worries or anxiety that we both feel now. No expectations. No stress. No need to push ourselves beyond our limits. I can surround myself with friends, roommates, classmates, new people, customers at work, but no one can dissolve my anxiety and stress like when I fly to see my family on that empty plot of land. It is home.